Just to get it straight. I'M not the one with the crush. I don't have one, let alone an obsessive one. But there's this boy in my class that I've known since grade 2 when I came to my current school. He had a girlfriend for about a year or two and one autumn day we were chatting on MSN and he randomly typed: if my gf and me broke up i would've liked you. At first I didn't understand (he typed it in a different way than I did and it wasn't very readable), but when I got the message I was pretty overjoyed to know that someone liked me.
But not long after he and his girlfriend broke up (I think she broke up with him). He was seriously upset for quite a while but started moving on (by moving on I mean crushing on four girls at once- including me). Before, he used to just type *hugs* on MSN, but soon he started actually hugging me. My friend told my sister that he asked me out once but I rejected him, when my sister relayed that sory to me,I couldn't recall doing that, I must've done it sub-consciously or something.
Luckily for him (and for me), he found a new girlfriend.He and his old gf were really close and were together quite a bit, but his new gf and him only hugged and weren't seen together much besides those times. (I really feel like I'm talking about his history right now, it feels kind of awkward). Their relationship didn't last too long, maybe for a month or two. And again he turned depressed. Of course, he started going after ME after his phase.
Now he hugs me five times a day (I've been trying a little to avoid it, just enough so that he doesn't get suspicious, but he's figured me out anyway). He's asked me time and time again if I liked him back, and time and time again I say "I'm sorry, I don't like you". He insists that it's totally fine that I don't like him back, but he keeps posting things on fb that say he's sad and depressed and stuff. I've guessed that they're about me, and my friend confirmed it just today. He's really persistent, ut I don't want to tell him to GET OFF MY LAWN or something like that and hurt his feeling even more. I guess I'll have to wait for him to get the hint (or SLOWLY hint it out to him) to move on and chase some other girl around.